At this point in my life I’ve learned some crucial lessons about emotional and mental growth and its taken alot of experiences both negative and positive to have that realization. ❤️Incase it comes in handy for anyone out there....Im Sharing my Top 3 for today:
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1. Allow yourself to have feelings that are ‘bad/crap/horrible/nasty/difficult” because if you dont acknowledge them they will grow and dominate you even more. FEEL those yucky feelings, acknowledge them and THEN move on. Dont buy into the whole ‘dont feel sorry for yourself/bad/negative’ trend. Thats what i call the Tyranny of POSITIVITY. No human is able to ‘suppress’ any feelings. Its part of living. Just allow yourself to Feel in full. Then choose what to do to change the situation.
2. When you feel hurt/offended by someone- its NOT necessarily a BAD thing. Its an Opportunity to GROW and ask yourself what triggered you to feel discomfort about that person/those words. Yes there are rude people/nasty people/all types BUT its how we Interpret what they say and do that actually affects us. We can also just choose to accept it is what it is and with that- Change our interaction with that person. Lessen the time/exposure OR at least Know that everyone says and does hurtful things from a place of THEIR own pain.
3. Social media reinforces low self esteem because humans love to compare. The problem is it sets standards that are superficial and we will Never know the truth behind those pictures and smiles. Every human has their own pain and suffering- hidden behind the Filters. There are also people who use social media to ‘Show’ they have a high self esteem. Theres no such thing as constantly needing to ‘Show’ how good you feel to others/what you have unless you are actually just trying to make yourself feel better. So dont believe the hype- seriously. The the More the Layers of needing to show off clothes makeup money and status the Deeper someone is trying to hide or bury their pain. ❤️
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Do you know that faces can be read based on Chinese characters? Isn't that interesting? Let’s take a look at ten of the most common examples.
“甲” (Armour) - Wide forehead with sharp chin. The thoughtful type. Does a lot of thinking (some useful and wise, some not). However, they normally fail when it comes to execution. They make suitable candidates for backend jobs, but not those that need them to deal with customers. They also excel in jobs that require them to provide creative ideas.
“申” (State) - Narrow forehead, wide cheeks with sharp chin. Looks like an oval shape. This is the perfect shape, and is often found in artists. A long and high nose suggests high self-esteem. Suited for forefront jobs.
Next, let's take a look at the three types of square faces:
“圆” (Round) - Round face with round nose. The social type who enjoys life and brings joy to others. However, beneath the cheerful outer appearance, hides a pessimistic character that’s mainly due to low self-esteem.
“同” (Together) - Compared to a round face, this face type is able to stand higher pressure. The sporty type. A good face type, well balanced in thought and action. Knows how to enjoy and often leads a worry-free life.
“田” (Field) - Short and wide face, square in shape. A person born with this face type will be rich and wealthy in his or her life.
In the next podcast, we will unveil the remaining five. Stay tuned!
有没有想过,脸型是可以引用中文字来形容呢?很有趣吧?现在就让我们以十个比较普遍的中文字来解读面相吧!
甲字﹣额头宽、下巴尖,属于思想型。总是可以想出天下无敌的点子,可是实行起来就比较慢半拍。这一类脸型的人适合从事后勤辅助工作,尽量避免需要面对顾客的工作。此外,也适合负责一些需要提出创意点子的工作。
申字﹣额头窄、脸颊宽、下巴尖,好像鹅蛋般,属完美脸型,多见于艺人身上。配上高鼻梁,为人有自信,适合从事前线工作。
接下来,我们要看看三个属于比较四方的脸型:
圆字 ﹣鼻型多属圆粒状,属于享受派,善于交际,总让人感觉开心。尽管外表开朗,内心却因自信不足而显得悲观。
同字 ﹣相比圆字脸,同字脸比较可以承受压力,属于运动型,是比较均衡的好脸型。思想、行动、享受都混合得很平均,一生衣碌无犹。
田字 ﹣呈四方型,脸型短且宽,属于富豪脸型。
下一次,我们会再看余下的五种中文字脸型,敬请留意咯!
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【玳瑚師父玄學論】 《別把愛變成害》
Do Not Let Your Love Turn Harmful (English Version Below)
這篇文章的誕生,是吾發自內心的一份關愛。吾的工作是須要見很多很多人的,在眾多的顧客群中,所謂的「疼愛」孩子,或望子成龍望女成鳳,是無可厚非的。祇是吾乃玄學家,必定有非一般的洞察力,必定有遠見。因此,不時都會為這些家長們「捏一把冷汗」
人與人之間的相愛、聚散、來往、互動及喜不喜歡,皆是八字裏的五行相生相剋,所演化的一場場戲劇。也唯有懂得「看劇本」及「修補劇本」的人才能讓一場場戲劇有看頭,且有「較圓滿」的結局。這些絕對不是一個觀戲的人所能辦得到的。
舉例:您的公子八字不要金,而您卻要他學鋼琴。結果是,他不但學不成,身心還得受創,浪費時間也浪費金錢 ,更嚴重的連親子關係,也可能亮起紅燈。祇因那不是他用神,而是他八字裏的「毒藥」,他自然不會喜歡,也不會學有所成。再舉例:您的千金八字不要水,而您卻要她攻讀經濟學。結果是,她開始有脫髮現象、憂愁滿面、越來越沒有安全感、生理出現問題,等等。試問,這樣好還是不好?
每個人都有其八字裏的喜、用、忌神。而這些喜、用、忌神,都分佈在人、飲食、日常用品、號碼、學術、顏色、形狀、暗與亮,等等。不懂的人,有如瞎子探路,處處皆險也。懂得的人,處處皆生機,健康、快樂、富貴榮華常相伴。「笑傲江湖」又有何難。哈!哈!哈!
願天下為人父母者,早日覺醒,不要再固執己見,快樂為您的子女,批看八字,免去今時日後的煩惱,千萬不要把愛變成害。
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The idea of this article was conceived out of my deep concern and care for people. My job entails meeting a lot of people, amongst them parents who love their children and have high hopes and expectations for their offspring. As a Chinese Metaphysician, I do possess a higher than usual level of awareness and foresight. Thus, I often break out in 'cold sweats' whenever I meet these parents.
The state of relationship and interaction between human beings, be it falling in or out of love, coming together or falling apart, liking or disliking one another, has a great deal to do with the interactions of the 5 elemental types in their birth charts. These interactions between their elements spin the many dramas that will unfold in their lives together. Only a person, who can read the 'drama script' well and has the ability to modify it, can direct these dramas to become blockbusters and influence a happy ending in them. A person who merely watches the show as a audience will surely not be able to do that.
Take for example: suppose that your son does not need his unfavourable Metal element, and yet you made him learn the piano. Not only did he fail miserably, his self esteem is crushed and time and money go down the drain too. More importantly, this may also put a strain on the parent-child relationship. This situation comes into being because of the unfavourable element (like a poison to him) you introduce into his life. It is only natural that he will dislike and resist with no result to show.
Another example: suppose that the Water element is unfavourable to your daughter, but you insist that she specializes in economics. As a result, the poor girl suffers from hair loss, depression, a deepening sense of insecurity and physiological issues, etc. Is this something you will hope for?
Every one of us, in our birth chart, has our favourable and unfavourable elements. These elements are also omnipresent in our surroundings: people, food and beverages, daily necessities, numerals, trades and skills, colours, shapes, luminosity, etc. The ignorant ones would be like blind men fumbling for directions, their situation ever so dangerous. The ones who have a grasp of this knowledge will find opportunities everywhere, with good health, happiness, wealth and fortune ever present. Laughter will fill your life! Ha ha ha!
I wish that all parents in the world will come to realise this, and not hold on to their erroneous views stubbornly. Spare a thought for the happiness of your children and seek professional help to understand their birth charts. In this way, it will save you from worries in the days to come. Do not let your love for your children turn harmful and end up hurting them instead.
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